Fly Banger: Ne-Yo Teaches The Meaning of Self-Worth In “Earn Ur Love”

If it’s that easy, I don’t want it.

Ne-Yo comes right back into pocket with a special music gem of love and knowing your self-worth. The featured track “Earn Ur Love” sets the standard of — that you’re worth more just a nice bag and fancy things that money can buy. In other words, make someone earn your love and not just easily give it away, especially when one is willing to do the work to win your love and trust.

Ne-Yo says:

A Good Man will earn you. He’ll work for it and won’t mind working for it because he recognizes your worth. Ladies, find a man that’ll “Earn Your Love.” Enjoy this appetizer guys. Album coming soon.

Check it out above.


Game, Set, Match: Serena Williams is Engaged!

That’s right y’all Serena Williams is really off the market now! What a way to end the year and usher in a new one. The tennis superstar is engaged to the co-founder of Reddit Alexis Ohanian. Fellas it’s perfectly fine to let out a ugly cry one good time now.


Serena Williams made the official announcement via her Facebook account sharing a post from her own Reddit account on her timeline.

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The news follows immediately after her former flame Drake recently got the internets talking about his possible relationship with Jennifer Lopez. We are very excited for Serena and Alexis, congrats to the both of them on their engagement!

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SFPL x ‘The Perfect Match’ Exclusive: “What makes someone your Perfect Match?”, Take 4-Steps To Find That Special Someone


Is there such a thing as the perfect match? Charlie is convinced there isn’t, at least for him. A playboy who avoids love at all costs, he’s convinced that relationships are dead. His sister Sherry a therapist, does her best to get through to him to no avail. Charlie seems set in his ways until his best friends challenge him to date one woman for a month, certain he won’t be able to avoid falling for her. Believing he’s immune to love, Charlie accepts unaware he’s about to meet Eva. At first Charlie and Eva are on the same page, agreeing to a casual affair. However, Charlie soon begins to question his stance on love and whether he may actually want more than just a one night stand.

The Perfect Match hits theaters this Friday March 11th and stars Terrence Jenkins as Charlie and Cassie Ventura as Eva. Executive produced by Queen Latifah, the film also stars Paula Patton, Lauren London, Dascha Polanco, Donald Faison, and Robert Christopher Riley.

Ahead of the movies release we decided to ask ourselves, “What makes someone your perfect match?”. Now perfection is an unachievable ideal, because no one is without their flaws. There is no one size fits all equation and your perfect match is exactly that, your match; it is unique to you. However, there still are principles we can all use, as a guideline in determining whether we’ve found our match.


After feedback from members of both sexes we have established four stages that can help you determine if your significant other is the pea to complete your pod. These are Chemistry, Compatibility, Communication, and Comfort.


This is something that cannot be faked. We all know what it feels like to really vibe with someone. You get butterflies in your stomach whether you’re thinking about or with that person. Your conversations flow, you make each other laugh, you have a smile plastered on your face for hours after seeing or even speaking to them. Now if you’ve made your way to the bedroom, being sexually intimate can either deepen your connection or totally derail your chemistry. It’s important to keep in mind though that it may take a little effort to become in sync, but as long as you are both willing don’t let it deter you, because what matters is that you want to tear their clothes off.



As you get to know your significant other you’ll start to see whether or not you’re compatible. This entails discerning how this person fits into your life. Do you share similar interests and tastes? If not, they should at least be making an effort to take part in the things you enjoy. Do they get along with your family and friends, those closest to you? You’ll begin to notice their quirks and habits. If at this point you aren’t completely repulsed and looking for a way out, then you may have found your match.



Communication is an important part of life and crucial in determining whether your partner is the one for you. It involves building trust, having a mutual respect for each other, and being willing to listen to what your partner has to say. It also isn’t limited to verbal communication. Body language and intimacy also play in a role in establishing excellent communication between you and your partner. Understanding each others love language and making an effort to be mindful of how we receive and give love is also vital.



Over a period of time if the chemistry doesn’t fade plus you and your mate are in sync there comes a level openness and vulnerability. Everyone has let their guard down and there’s a steady stream of support, communication, understanding, and acceptance. Comfort is getting to be unapologetically you without fear of judgement. When you’ve reached this state you’ll know without a doubt you’ve found your perfect match.


We hope this helps those that are in search or just happen to fall upon that ‘Perfect Match.’

And…don’t forget to check out the movie! It’s definitely a MUST SEE!

-Stay Fly! 

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#HappyValentinesDay: DJ B-Hen prepares to make babies around the nation with ‘Pillow Talk: The Valentine’s Mix’


Looking for some V-Day music to set the tone for an epic evening? Well, we can take care of that for you! Today, Hollywood’s Champion of New Sound, DJ B-Hen delivers his new Valentine’s Day project entitled Pillow Talk.

The mix includes a cluster of melodic music with smooth transitions, enticing the thickness of love that surrounds us on this very day. Strategically placing the sounds of Rihanna, Iamsu, Omarion, Eric Bellinger, Tank and more, it’s quite clear that all things lead to the bedroom for some major Pillow Talk with a sensual, sexual agenda.

Take a listen below to get your personal V-fix:


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On The Gram: 12 Hilarious Memes From Love and Hip Hop: Hollywood Season Finale


The season finally of Love and Hip Hop: Hollywood was entertaining yet hectic. Myles’ coming out journey continued to his homies and Milan finally got to meet his family. Nikki told Rich about Moniece still being in love with Fizz, which caused him to cancel their engagement and break it off with her. Moniece being the crazy person she is confronted Nikki at Fizz’s video release party and Ray J brought Princess so she could take him back. The people over on Instagram, worked up some memes that sums up the reaction of the viewers of #LHHH. Check out the 12 hilarious memes after the jump.

– Stay Fly

Fly Girl Dominique

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Fly Visual: Keke Palmer – “I Don’t Belong To You”


Last night, at midnight, Keke Palmer released the highly anticipated record and visuals for her song, “I Don’t Belong To You”. She delivers a sexy, sultry performance, yet displaying youthful sophistication. Keke’s soulful vocals and empowering lyrics are reminiscent to a time where cinematic story telling was the standard. With cameos by Cassie & Power’s Rotimi. 


Executive Produced by Keke, directed by Mia Swier and Jim Swaffield, lyrics: Keke Palmer and Natalie Sims,  music producer: London On Da Track.

Check out the video below:

“I Don’t Belong To You” is available now on iTunesGoogle Play and Spotify.

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New Music: Ashton Martin Covers Travis Scott’s “Antidote”

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Singer-songwriter Ashton Martin has been stirring up quite some noise in the underground music world. But with the release of this new cover for Travis Scott’s “Antidote”, we wouldn’t be surprised if this walked him right up to mainstream! Don’t just take our word for it, listen for yourself with the link below:

Early May of this year, Ashton released his first independent EP titled Art, Love, Passion. The 6 track project reveals his creativity and skills, as not only a singer/song writer but a producer as well. ‘#ALP’ can be found on Spotify, Google Play, Amazon and iTunes.

Be sure to be on the look out for more of Ashton Martin.

You can keep up with Ashton on social media:

Instagram: @AshtnMrtn | Twitter:@AshtnMrtn |


Stay Fly

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New Music: Alicia Keys – “28 Thousand Days”

Alicia Keys celebrates life and love with her new jawn entitled “28 Thousand Days.” Today, she and artist/producer Swizz Beatz commemorate 5 years of being married since July 31, 2010. Keys drops the song encouraging people to just simply live their life with no regrets. 28,000 days = 76 years, the average life span of a human being.

Alicia publicly shared her love to Swizz with a special message on IG:

Beatz also did the same:

Check out the FULL track below:


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New Video: The Weeknd Brings Out His Inner Michael Jackson In “Can’t Feel My Face”

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Who knew The Weeknd could give us a few dance moves?! The chart-topping Canadian singer-songwriter-producer who brought us hits like; “Earned It”, “Love Me Harder” featuring Ariana Grande and more — now delivers his new visual to the trending single “Can’t Feel My Face.”

In the Grant Singer-directed video, Abel Tesfaye aka The Weeknd hits the stage in what seems to be a local bar, where the crowd looked a bit unmoved by his performance, but he has the full attention of a female interest (model Chanel Iman), whose sitting front and center; gazing into his eyes.

While performing, the attendees throw a few drinks in his face, but he continues to perform while mustering up some traditional Michael Jackson-esque moves. In the crowd, was a certain individual who may have just what the singer needs to get the crowd’s attention. Eventually, the mysterious man throws a lighter at Weeknd, which sets the talented star on fire, giving the him more energy and effortless moves; while the bar goes wild in full dance mode.

Check out the FULL visual over at Apple Music Connect right now.

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SFPL’s Visual Spotlight: J-EyE – “My Religion”

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The SFPL does it again, stumbling across a new visual that is sure to grab your attention. Artist/Producer J-EyE shows off his new single “My Religion,” which is bound to have you think twice about your insecurities. Check out more after the jump…